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I’m nibbling on a grocery-store cheese dish in a roomy house in East L.A. with a small number of homosexual males that have sworn off anal intercourse once and for all. They call themselves “ sides ,” a term created in 2013 by Joe Kort , A detroit-based clinical specialist who’s been counseling such males for pretty much three decades. In a HuffPo article , Kort introduced a substitute for the binary category used by many homosexual guys to notice their chosen sexual place — i.e., “ top ,” the...

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