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I’m nibbling on a grocery-store cheese dish in a home that is spacious East L.A. with a small number of homosexual guys who possess sworn off anal intercourse once and for all. They call themselves “ sides ,” a term created in 2013 by Joe Kort , A detroit-based clinical specialist who’s been counseling such males for pretty much 30 years. In a HuffPo article , Kort provided an alternate to the binary classification used by many gay guys to see their chosen sexual place — i.e., “ top ,” the...

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